musings

why do people get along with some and not others. personality is this intangible thing that is almost impossible to define. you can have two people with almost the exact same characteristics yet one would be described as confident and the other an arrogant prick. it is almost like we are born with a stamp on our forehead,you all will love,you over there take what you can get. maybe it also has to do with that some people need validation for every thing they do and cannot percieve that people would like them better if they just would not try so hard. i have been guilty of this in my time. just watching people and interacting with them,it is entirely too obvious that charisma is not dealt out on an equal basis. i guess it is like everything else ,life is just more fair to some than others.