Sunday, October 02, 2005

2 people i knew committed suicide. 2 became born again christians. they had the same problems,life had no meaning to them. 2 chose oblivion, 2 chose an external source to with a vague promise of eternal happiness. i would choose oblivian.

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

To stone Thrower: Had never heard of the blogger thing,...until a friend of mine started one, and to support her I began reading it! Had comments and saw links to other "bloggers", ......found interesting people and stories out there, and this is how I came to your blog!
I want to share something with you in regards to your ~ round round we go writings! I truly think you would not only enjoy but benefit from reading ( maybe you have already read it) the book called the Five Love Languages. In it, it explains about the understanding and time line of the "In Love " feeling! As well our comunication between each other! The jist, when we are in love we are completly focused on our in love drug! We devour it, our heart beat raises , our blood pressure changes, our sexual desire flourishes, it has become our whole purpose and the answer to our "you make me feel whole and alive, the reason for living feeling! The time line for this is about 6 monts to 2-3 years, big gap, but we are all different.

Then one day we wake up and realize our "drug" has worn off, this person laying beside us has morning breath, they left the night befores toothpaste in the sink like a gob making you gag! Their snack dishes are on the coffe table laying like some disturbance to our own reality! Then they roll over and have that "make love to me and kiss me look in their eye, and strangley you mind says ew!
What happened did I make the wrong choice. I truly thought this was the one. I truly thought there would be nothing this person could ever do to annoy me.

Truth is,..once these natural processes and inmportant stages are understood, then and only then is the depth of love for your partner capatalized and deepened. The feeling of true trust and freedom weaves itself between you two, to strong for even the tough times collapse!
Now that's a orgasm that keeps your partners dirty socks carried to the laundy hamper for a beging to a new day!,....Good luck, your a handsome man!
Loves always, Pamella

Anonymous said...

It has been brought to my attention that you did not call your self stonethrower, you said I like to lift stones and throw things! ......... I paniced in case I may have addressed you in a possibly conceived disturbing fashion, Thank god for friends bringing to attention the girble in our own brains tripping and refunnelling information down and out in a all inclusive emberassing way! Funny thing is I didnt even conceive or attatch the negative side to the "stonethrower"....however, sounds like it could be fun in a healthy sort of way!!!!!
signed to much coffee: Pamella

Andrea said...

I was going to say something but that is quite the comment up there. hmm. You are a handsome man.

stonelifter said...

question is who's friend pamella is,quit the introduction to my blog.

Anonymous said...

would that be in all due respect, "quit" or "quite"? It does make a large difference in a reply or not reply! Oh ,....the spelling of the English language!

stonelifter said...

my apologies-quite. the name of my blog is ramblings of a fool who cannot spell after all

Anonymous said...

I said that! funny, I read it as intention, she was the one that questioned it and brought "spelling" to my attention!

Well,...I cant resist,...your first clue would be "to the only person I know that would come across this "thing" in the drugstore and feel completly compelled to take a picture of it, and share it with her friends on her blog site,....I still havent stopped laughing......not to sure if finding amusement about "my friend's find" should lend me to require counselling,...Maybe like ,...honey I'm home, you will never guess what I found for you today!!!!!!!!
I've tried to make a link, however it isnt working so here's the clue..... www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B0009RJO1K/104-2071177-9342361?v=glance

stonelifter said...

hailey is the only one that i go to regularly that photographs everything on the planet

Anonymous said...

k......She's tried to laminate tacks and dorito's ,...."under paper shredder on your site".................and now that I know this about my friend it may explain how I met her! She makes me Laugh,....,..Maybe I need to get her counselling..........

stonelifter said...

ahh,cher. she popped over and made a comment so i went over there and commented back.

Anonymous said...

Thank You for the fun added to my Sunday,.....Yet,I still do recommed that particular book, it is gentle reading and I havent met one person that hasent appretiate the read!
signed: Pamella

stonelifter said...

i shall go over to the book store and peruse a copy although i am aware of this already.wether a relationship stands the test of time is when the infactuation wears off and it is how you deal with the mundane things in life.my last relationship went south so hard that there was not an emotion to be spent. there was not even hatred,it was complete apathy towards each other. that is far worse than no emotion at all.people fall in love all the time and they fall out of love just as quickly,it take something special to want to hang out with your mate for years on end and i think not a lot of people find that which lasts a life time.

stonelifter said...

and thank you pamella for reading my blog. i do not put it out there for any one in particular but hey if you like what you read,all is the better

H said...

Ha ha ha - Thanks for the mention. I guess I do photograph everything on the planet, hey?
I live half my life behind the lens of a camera...
In relation to the post:
Different strokes for different folks, i guess...